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Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Sat Mar 23, 2019 10:48 am

My Little Sister died from a severe stroke on the first of the month.

I was going to post about this sooner but forgot this was where I did nothing fancy with my password.It was unexpected and quick.

Problem is we're all at some level of in debt including her husband. So we set up a Go Fund Me asking for more than we expect people to give because we remember spending almost 20,000 on Grandma's last wishes when things were less expensive.

Obituary link https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/rgj/o ... =191866291

Go Fund Me link https://gofundme.com/shiniri-montesanto-memorial-fund

If anyone can help. As to how I'm doing, Well I keep thinking I should be doing worse but my little sister hasn't exactly been healthy in the last 20 years and even though she was happy and active enough to visit frequently she's lost jobs and been in noticeable pain over it. So at least the pain is over. Just not the bills.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Neko- » Sat Mar 23, 2019 1:07 pm

My most sincere condoleances to you and the rest of the family. :(
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Sat Mar 23, 2019 1:28 pm

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My sister is the one posing in a red shirt. Our mom is between us.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby camk4evr » Sat Mar 23, 2019 1:40 pm

I'm sorry to hear about your sister, Spok. My condolences to you and your family.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Sat Mar 23, 2019 6:47 pm

Thank you Camk, wish I could say I never thought I would be talking about this but its something I feared every time I heard she was hurt for years.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Sun Mar 24, 2019 11:39 am

Jennifer Lynn Stack - Shiniri Starlynn Montesanto
April 19, 1980 - March 1, 2019

In a sad way its good she asked her ashes be scattered at sea, a Grave marker carver would charge an arm and a leg to fit even the basic information on the stone.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby CRBWildcat » Sun Mar 24, 2019 4:38 pm

My condolences, Spok. That's all I can really say without dwelling on the topic. :cry:
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Sun Mar 24, 2019 4:50 pm

She was over here the day before she died doing her laundry as usual. We watched movies and she talked her husband into giving us some spare plywood that we put in place to cover places where the floor failed after her visit ended. The lifting in that left me too muscle strained to be able to leave the house (stairway needs repair) when we got the call from her husband that she had collapsed.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby ckosacranoid » Tue Mar 26, 2019 3:18 pm

Sorry to hear about your loss. Hope things turn out all right and if nothing else, Raise a drink of some type in her honor. And think about the good times you guys shared.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Tue Mar 26, 2019 11:10 pm

Thank you, Strange thing is that for years its been repeated visits where I would ask her to play a video game or watch things on TV with us while the laundry washed.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby KonokoHasano » Sun Mar 31, 2019 1:45 am

Sorry to hear about that, Spok.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Sun Mar 31, 2019 2:19 am

Thank you.

On the day my sister died I got something in the mail late. A Documentary. Bit of irony in the title.
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I watched it while my Mom was at the hospital for my sisters last moments. I had over worked my back the previous night and couldn't get out of the house.

Even said after Mom called me telling my Sister was too injured to recover that it likely showed up when it did to break it to me easy that she wasn't going to recover from her stroke.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Sunshine Temple » Wed Apr 10, 2019 5:21 pm

I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies.

And apologies for replying so late, as I just checked the forum today.
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Re: Back because of death again.

Postby Spokavriel » Wed Apr 10, 2019 5:41 pm

Not the last to know. hard to find step siblings only got the info yesterday.
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