by bissek » Tue Sep 12, 2006 4:43 pm
Of course, "Family Honor" is a concept conditional on the families HAVING honor. You could make a fairly good argument that none of them - including Ranma and Kasumi - have any honor to lose.
In regards to the Kuonji agreement being at best an arrangement for a marriage meeting, then Genma by rights should not have taken the yattai until after the meeting - IF the meeting resulted in an engagement. The "Ukyo or Okonomiyaki" conversation does not count. I think marriage meetings have to be done at an age when the parties theoretically getting married are old enough to know what's going on.
As such, it could be that all the Saotomes owe the Kuonjis is money to replace the yattai, which could be countered by a bill for Ukyo's share of the damage to the dojo during the aborted wedding.
As for trying to settle the engagement mess with marriage meetings: I'm not too solid on the requirements, but I think the components needed for one to occur are:
1: The presence of the potential bride and groom
This one's easy. With the exception of Akane, who would refuse to show up if Ranma said or did something she perceived to be rude or perverted in the recent past unless dragged in by her family, any of the girls after Ranma would cheerfully agree to a marriage meeting.
2: The absence of violent and/or crazy people trying to disrupt the meeting
This one is not an official requirement, but given Ranma's life, it is a de facto requirement.
If any of the wanna-be brides (including Kodachi) other than the one invited shows up at the meeting, the meeting will degenerate into pointless violence. If the meeting is with Shampoo, Mousse will attack the meeting. If the meeting is Ranma with anybody, Kuno and/or Ryoga may turn up and cause a fight. If the meeting is with Akane, Soun and Genma will try to force a successful wedding and have a priest standing outside the door. Nodoka may help them. If the meeting is with anyone other than Akane, the dopey duo will try to ensure the meeting fails so that Ranma will return to Akane, again possibly helped by Nodoka. If anyone female is at the meeting at all, Happosai may turn up and disrupt things just by being his usual self.
The only way to fill this requirement is to have all the above parties bound, gagged, and locked into a secure facility somewhere on the opposite side of town from the meeting.
3: The presence of one or both parents of each member of the couple
This one is automatically impossible, as Gemna, Soun and Nodoka are tied up on the other side of town. This is further complicated by the fact that with the possible exception of Cologne, none of the fiancees parents/guardians are pushing the match for the sake of their children, they are pushing it for their own sake (Genma + Soun: Retirement. Kuonji: Reclaiming the pride he lost by trusting Genma. Principal Kuno: Probably hasn't noticed his children's lust lives, except to note that they hang around people who need haircuts), and even Cologne has an ulterior motive in tribal politics and inflexible laws. That means that it is highly unlikely that the parents will be reasonable.
4: (Not sure on this one) A matchmaker/arbitrator/peacekeeper
As I've said before, neutral parties to the mess called Ranma's life are hard to come by in Nerima. Ones that people will actually listen to are even harder to find.